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First things first – your worth has nothing to do with what anyone else thinks. Seriously. Your self-perception is like this golden key that unlocks your value. Nobody's got the magical power to ruin your mood or mess with how you see yourself – unless you give them the green light.
This total stranger thought it'd be fun to trash-talk my looks in my video comments, and I hear it often. I'm a whale, I look like Ms. Piggy (she's a bad bitch so that's a compliment lol). But you know what, I didn't bat an eyelash. I don't know these people saying things about me, I don't care about them, and their words don't mean squat to me. Here's a tip for those moments when someone's opinion starts poking at you: Take that thought for a spin. So some random person thinks you're not the cutest person to ever walk this Earth – big deal! Now what? Like, seriously, what impact does it even have on your life? Spoiler alert: Zero. Zilch. Nada.
And here's the kicker: when someone takes a dig at you, they're actually revealing more about themselves than anything they could ever say about you. It's like a mirror reflecting their own stuff back at them. Miserable people try to bring others down. Have you ever seen a truly happy person sitting around criticizing people? Much less random strangers on the internet? Nope! Happy people don't have time or energy for that. When someone says terrible things about you, they're absolutely revealing that they're unhappy with themselves or their lives and they want to bring others down to be just as miserable as them. But trust me, I'm never giving anyone the power to mess with how I see myself. I'm never giving anyone the power to change my mood or mess with my emotions! And neither should you. You're in the driver's seat of your own self-worth. Own it. Embrace your quirks, your talents, your experiences – they're what make you uniquely awesome. And who cares what others think? Seriously, who gives them the authority?
Today, let's throw a party for ourselves – the kind where we celebrate the cool, imperfect, fantastic humans we are. Let's be kind to ourselves, hang out with the positive vibes crew, and watch ourselves grow into these kick-ass people. Believe in your own awesomeness, learn from the curveballs life throws, and become this unstoppable force.
Keep this in mind: You're worth every bit of love, respect, and happiness – just because you're you. So, as the wise Eleanor Roosevelt said, don't let anyone mess with your vibe. With self-confidence as your wingman, go out there and rock it.
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by kristen justine
tampa florida